You feel like a “Late Bloomer”, only now beginning to be ready for some of the experiences your peers seemed to be having years ago.
Whether it is when you felt ready to be sexually active, when you felt ready to be in a serious committed relationship, when you were ready to go to college… or any other modern benchmark that seem critical but are actually arbitrary, if you find yourself on a different schedule for these kinds of life experiences, you are most likely on a different path.
You are ready to launch into your adult life, long before your peers – and you are sick and tired of feeling like a dependent kid.
Perhaps you want to (or did) graduate high school early, start your own business, live on your own, run for political office when you are only 25, etc, but you are challenged to do so when your peers are nowhere near ready for this and the system in general is not designed to help someone like you.
This can mean deeper friendships (not just relationships of convenience) or finding true love and commitment, at an age when your peers still seem to be treating relationships like a game. (* FYI: This is the most common reason people work with us *)
You realize either consciously or instinctively that this means you are going to have to do things differently, make some tough decisions and most likely leave some people behind. You can’t have something new and different while holding onto everything stats quo.
Do you want to have your hand held and be coddled through this process? If so , than this is probably not for you.
Do you want to be challenged, inspired and reinforced with skills and a strategy that will help you to quickly adopt a way of life that will lead to kind and quality of relationships that will truly satisfy you? If so, then you are in the right place!
Whether this was an insight from a drug trip or something that emerged through an experience (like a relationship ending or a random conversation with a stranger that seemed also as if it was ‘meant’ to be, etc.), or something that you came to because you have spent lifetime being more philosophical. (FYI: *This is the 2nd most common reason people work with us * )
You want your work to be something that is meaningful and gratifying in and of itself… something that is intrinsically rewarding.
You are deeply driven by more than just the desire for financial gain. Not that you don’t also want financial success, but money alone will never truly satisfy you. (FYI: *This is the 3rd most common reason people work with us * )
You are more sensitive than most people seem to be and tend to constantly feel things more intensely.
This makes life rich and amazing, yet also makes many things far harder to just ignore and move on from.
Do you often take things personally, that aren’t? Do you worry to much? Have a hard time letting go and moving on?
You have had to overcome challenges that are not ones faced by the majority of people – or at least not the majority of people most immediate around you.
These can be things varying from learning disabilities, significant family problems, personal tragedies, mental health challenges, developmental challenges, financial hardships, etc.
You are dealt the hand of cards life deals you, and while it may be far easier for those who don’t have these challenges, it is entirely up to you to do what it takes to lead a personally satisfying life anyway.
It can feel lonely, discouraging, enraging, frustrating and like it will never get easy… and it may not get easy. But that does not need to stop you from still having an excellent life anyway.
We will help you get there.
You have serious ambitions to become an elite performer because for someone like you, it is only in having given it your all, that you can truly be content.
This may show up in your desire to be an elite athlete, an elite soldier, a concert pianist or virtuoso, a writer, etc. Unlike the many people who want to become a celebrity for the fame and wealth, you want to achieve mastery because of how having given it your all, makes you feel.